Here's what I do...

Here’s what I do;

I'm not bad looking, but I'm no 'stavro's nacho's' mother fucker either haha. Small things like not eating macca's everyday and not smoking does wonders. You know how hard these girls work to look hot for you? The least you can do is eat healthy and run around the block five times a week and not belch all over yourself. Keep stylish and always believe you’re gorgeous, smooth and a charmer even if it's not currently happening all these outside factors will catch up with your mentality. Watch for the negativity that slowly creeps in, you pretty much always have to be reinforcing that you're awesome.

The problem with RSD and MM is that some of us think they're undeniably lame and whether they are or not will always be up for debate(some place else), If the methods are so awesome why do some of us think they’re lame? With me; I want everyone to be enticed, in awe, at ease and in love with me. AKA just fucking smooth as silk baby, I don't believe the people at RSD and MM have achieved this and saturating the market place with new fang dangled product to get the girl isn't helping the credibility either, otherwise why all the hate? (It can be argued that their are those that are just hating on success but everybody still loves Juggler)

So what are the characteristics of a dude who is just smooth as silk? To me he is
-Truthful, joyful, loving, laidback
-Confident and calm
-Collected, carefree and easy going
-Funny, witty and humorous
-Can make anyone smile
-Solid with strength
-Has sex appeal, non-hesitant
-Clear complexion, attractive, fit and healthy
-High sex drive, intelligent, friendly, kind, assertive and talkative
-Smart, beautiful, strong
-Never inadequate
-Never afraid, a flirt
-Never flips out
-Romantic
-Not caring what they think
-A go getter
-Charismatic
-Original
-Cool and cooler
-Brave, powerful, vigorous
-Everyone falls in love with him
-Irresistible
-Sure of himself
-Getting chased for sex
-Is great sex
-Unbreakable
-Good looking
-At ease
-Enjoyable
-Spiced with cheekiness
-Light-hearted
-All this he just knows

All these points I try to embody and this is actually my list I have written in a first person format that I read over every morning and night, nothing too ritualistic. 1-3 times is enough. Just believe you are all this and you’ll see how stuff turns around. You’ll start walking taller, you won’t only have skills in a nightclub, each and every situation will be fair game and you won’t be a weird mother fucker in your everyday normal situation like a PUA is, those shop girls you thought you could never touch even with all that nightclub wizardry will be blushing when you talk to them.

Being a natural is good but a structure has its place, you can't tell a football team to just go out there and play natural, they do so but with an underlying framework and a championship winning team keeps it tight. All your underlying feelings thoughts, emotions, body mechanics, etc are all players on the team that makeup you. I don't want to get too esoteric on you, but just keep your whole steez tight.

I'm a fan of the Adam Lyon's (C-R)+Q+E=A system. Nice and simple but I never really strictly follow it, I'm always playing it by ear and it's just tucked away back there in the bottom of my head when I do need some guidance. Also I like Paul Janka, and I only picked these guys because they have small ebooks and you don't need to give up half your life to watch/read the whole thing.

I hear a lot of cool lines and routines but I like to keep all my moves original in fact I go out of my way to not use anyone else’s shit and not even the same lines and various sayings that even I make up, again. You do find yourself coming back to anecdotes of lines you made up from time to time but I like to always keep it fresh. This way I get my whole own style and you won’t believe the shit you can come up with on the spot plus, we can’t all be shirt and blazer wearing cats. Remember the pickup artist show, when Mystery lines up all his protégés before one gets voted off? All of those blokes where all shirt, blazer wearing highlighted hair mother fucker clones. Hahahaha get the fuck outta here and get your own fucking style pleassssssssssssssssseeeee.

Remember you have just as much choice as her. I don’t believe in ploughing and when you believe and know that you're good with women you don't need to approach woman constantly for "practise", because you're already fucking sick awesome at this shit so their is no need to approach on random’s you don't even like constantly, it’s already within you. Have some standards, me personally I only go for 8 and up and those which really stop me in my tracks, I don’t need to work myself up the scale, the hottest girl ever is ready for me now. I’m not really into ploughing because if the girl isn't smart enough to know I’m good for her she’s probably mentally retarded and I shouldn’t be getting with any mentally retarded girls haha.

Further; you know how you read about all these one off news stories about how there was this bag of money just sitting somewhere in some city street and everyone just happened to be passing/walking by it… well I'm that bag of money and if she denies me she’s simply missed her opportunity at picking up that bag of fucking money. So don’t be too harsh on yourself.

In the media today we are saturated with girls teasing us. Me? I don’t like this, you see things like Ralph, FHM, Maxim etc all these girls you know the look, looking at us all seductive over the shoulder, lips half open, eyes half closed just covering themselves up like “Yeah you can’t have me…” like a tease, please! Fuck that shit my girls don’t tease me, they fucking love me and hound me and can’t wait to see me. I much prefer a scene where she’s in love… longing, wondering…like sighing… “Oh where is he…” I’ll draw a picture if you want haha. I believe all my fucking girls love me. Whether this is true or not doesn’t matter.

Even in our pickup community we get told the girl has a hundred and one guys trying to get in touch with her and you have to out game all the other guys and shit. Nahh aaaahh. Not in my fucking world. In my world the hottest of the hottest girls are simply sitting at home alone bored shitless and lonely wondering where the fuck I am. She’s in love… longing, wondering…like sighing… “Oh where is he…” And you know what’s been happening? I’ve met some beautiful girls, absolute stunners who have been doing sweet fuck all lonely and at home and have no guys hounding them.

This is why you can and should always, always, always put her in her place if she ice queen fucks with you and acts cold. If you’re cool, calm and light-hearted this will take care of itself if you’re sticking to your unbreakable guns. Don’t panic and if you think she’s slipping away, she will. Stay calm, stay calm, stay calm. Please don’t you ever flip the fuck out and you’ll always lose her in the end with no play even if you have her for the moment but you let her humiliate you. Putting her and anyone in there place is actually a very healthy thing you can do for a relationship. Stay light-hearted.

On approaching really man honestly you know if you step to her like a bumbling pussy it’s not really going to go great. You really have to go all the way and rock it, don’t half step or safe open (saying “hey…” like a pussy willow as she walks by haha)

And finally don’t use PUA lingo, it’s totally gay and don’t fuck off your friends just because they’re in relationships and/or not good with women. I’ve learned the more better shit from people who aren’t “guru’s” so don’t pay someone 3 grand plus to hang out with you for three days. If I paid someone 3 grand plus to hang out with, we’d be getting fucking married haha.

Anyway this works for me, I just got off the phone with a girl and she confessed she loved me like ‘in love’ and it has only been a week.

On that note don’t discount love it’s a beautiful thing.

Easy

Zib

Further reading: http://sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com/2008/07/kurgens-wager.html