-Up to date

Fucking took me about 4 hours and my eyes are burnt out of there sockets from staring at this monitor for too long but here it is up to date.

I'll try and keep posts up to date in future as they happen.

Cheers

zib

FU: Bad date :( (28-01-06)

Went out today with this hot uni actor man she’s beautiful, but everyone is anyways here’s the story.

Awhile back I first saw this girl at university from afar and it was one of those girls you see and are struck in awe, total Wayne’s world style where slow romantic type music shit plays in your head and everything moves in slow-mo. She was in one of my first year uni lecture theatre classes (huge classroom) and I never had the balls to step to her, surprise surprise. Anyway a couple of interesting crossing path situations happened over three years at fucking uni. First was being an extra during a crap student film and she just happened to be the lead in the crap student film nothing really leapt off from their though. Next was admiring her from afar and the usual never really having the balls to step to her. Two years pass and I had seen her sporadically in and around on campus but nothing really to write about.

It’s three years down the track and I’m working work experience at this actor’s casting agency that operated out the side of a rich house in Mont Clare. I actually worked on some pretty impressive projects but that’s another story. In this office there was never more than three people in it working on something and guess who one day came in on work experience for herself – Hot uni actor. We where holding this lame work party for the launch of an advertisement division and long story short I got to drive around with just me and her handing out these lame balloon invitations. The end of the day I pinched her math (phone number). We soon got talking over MSN and after going through some inconsiderate situations (Hey can’t expect beautiful women to be considerate – they don’t have the time) where she left me hanging for an actor for a short film I was working on, I got through it unphased and generated some interest over the MSN with some cocky funny confidence, bailing when we where getting along really well where she was showing interest, letting it cook and identity chat – I was impressed for myself at how I was able to turn it around, anyways through it all it lead to this date where I asked her to tag along with me because I needed to “just” buy travel gear. I didn’t think she’d go for it because it was hot as fuck like 40 degree’s Celsius – but hey she did so I had to rush to get ready and didn’t have time to really go over any interesting game to spit to her.

I picked her up around 1pm – she lived age rages away. It had been ages since I’d seen her in person but I was struck once again as I saw her at the front of her door. She even had this red mark on her face (fuck knows she must have been sleeping on her face or something) yet she was still absolutely gorgeous, I was going to ask her what had happened but it faded out as soon as we where in the car. In the car on the way to the city it wasn’t actually going to bad the talk was flowing and it even touched on small social dynamic situations which where actually pretty interesting. Here’s a note for all the fellas scared to approach – she never gets approached, I asked her how often she did and she couldn’t remember the last time she did. My thoughts on this were she’s simply beautifully intimidating.

So we get into the city and out the car park and the chat is still going not too bad, looking back I probably should of gone for the hand hold here I actually said this too myself, probably where it may of started to fall apart. She was kinda close and her arm was just dangling by the side I was walking along. I had no idea if this was an invitation or not – still don’t now. We’re walking through the city walk through and the chat is starting to wane and we get into Myer looking for this fucking luggage section where the chat is beginning to get weaker and weaker and I’m starting to worry and it’s probably not helping I’m sweating my ass off over trying to impress and the heat cooking everything in my city with no air con up in this shopping spot. I had this idea for a place to take her because we’re both into filmic shit and the lame educational place was doing an exhibition of behind the scenes movie special FX, it would have been good for comedy value but it turned out she had just been there just three days ago, I was at a loss and went to the toilet to clear my head and regroup. I looked into the mirror and I wasn’t a total sweaty mess, my paranoia and anxiety was just fucking about off the rictor like usual.

I found her looking at the clothes and shit and I decided we should catch the train to the west of the city anyway to the educational joint, there was a park over the road I figured I could go to with her where I could spit game. Anyways before all this I tried working this game called “Don’t care if you do know” this game worked well with mates at work but with her it just didn’t fly and it felt lame. Waiting in the train it was more weak fluff and she was even beginning to give ‘ol raised eyebrow’ looks and the shit I was saying just wasn’t fresh, I tried playing an improv game I learnt from a Wayne Brady improv seminar and it went okay for a while but got old really quickly – too quickly, she actually said “I’m over this game.” It was going like shit and I sensed she wanted to bail (this games brutal baby) I figured I could save it at the park. We get to the park and it’s all nice and we chill by this swing set.

We’re on a swing each and she’s now on her phone heaps which she had been using on the train, wasn’t a good start. I threw everything at her and things started to kind of look up. Got a straight 10 which she lowered to 8 after playing 4 questions with her, tried to worked the whole advanced comfort ambition thing, spoke about some Carl Jung teachings, went the whole intellectual route made it fun by telling her about King’s, magicians, warriors and lovers, more advanced comfort, told her a Style story about 100% perfect loves, got over the shit-test barely when she went “Ehh this is Serendipity”. Luckily as I got to the end it wasn’t but still similar (They don’t end up together in the Style version). Really made me feel that I should come up with my own original stuff rather than relaying a lot of the stuff I read. It’s also not helping that I’m reading about how dudes in my lair are using the same stuff and the other night I cubed some girl and she had had it done before. I was at a loss as to where I was on the road map but reading over this I should have gone for the caressing touch much, much earlier as she was into me (I swear) before this frightening day. It was time for her to go home, she said earlier before the day begun she needed to be back at 4 and she chose to use the get out of jail card. It really wasn’t vibing at all.

We’re waiting for the train and I call her feet stubby and give her a trust test and her hands follow me down but she doesn’t squeeze back. She gets annoyed again because I can’t explain what this mean’s, I basically tell her “I dunno just wanted to see”. More chat about life and all that as we walk to the car, she’s on the phone by the ticket machine. In the car on the way back working this advance comfort thing telling her aspirations and drive I get the first real indicators of interest after quizzically looking throughout the whole day. What I should of realised was she was there in the first place coming out with me after I had spent weeks before hand making this date happen in the first place. That was the major buy signal. At her house we hug goodbye and she paused for a moment after the close hug, should have gone for something! Played it to safe, and she’s out the car and I’m upset on the way home I try a last ditch text msg which went as follows “Hey dork, I like how u ain’t a neurotic mess, u hav it together an ya quite smart :D that’s attractive, anyways wanna hang out again sometime?” BOOM! Nail in coffin, no response and if there is any recovery from here it’s going to be incredibly difficult. In my defence of this day other than I’m shit, her social skills weren’t up to par either. She did say she has no real friends and she went on a holiday alone, but still it’s up to me to bring it out of her. Anyways darl if you end up reading this – let’s try again. :D

SHIT I SHOULD HAVE DONE
-More playful teasing
-More not worrying
-Stop trying to impress her - the jokes just came off lame and added to the dismal situation
-Early kino/kino with the shit I say – there was a lot of before hand phone/MSN work to get her out on an occasion, I still believe it would of flied if we where hand holding early, her arm was dangling out there for fuck sake and my gut told me to make the move. Because I didn’t do it early any later kino would have been well out of place, which left me in a stuck position as the day progressed. Probably would have been good for my state if we where holding hands – I like holding hands :D The convo flowed well but it got irate in later parts because their was no comfort intimacy.
-More original shit
-Go on more dates and get better
-Maybe it’s not the best idea to go out on 40 degree Celsius days. Would have shown some grace if I cancelled the date to go out later plus I wouldn’t have sweated like a work horse just doing normal mundane shit like taking footsteps.
-Recently I’ve let feelings of depression and unworthiness get the better of me, situations like this don’t help. I must remember to laugh aloud at this and push on, grab nuts say fuck it and be confident.

Fucking work it mate

Cheers

zib

-Fireworks show (26-01-06)

It’s my countries national country day. No approaches here but something worthy to report is I had been working on not being such a sadist mopey mofo and actually got called tonight “You’re funny, like haha funny.” Which is want I want so gotta keep the head up because I'm on the right path. No stepping at the red jewel room was not good though.

cheers

zib

-City lair meet (21-01-06)

On Sunday went to meet all the blokes off the yahoo group which is the designated lair for our city. Now I’m not really into meeting lair people, they are social robots and too many cunts trying to be alpha males and shit but I did want some new wings and to go out with heads that are better than me. The whole seduction global scene is in disarray with the amount of beefs going around, click the title link and you’ll see a smidgeon of what I’m refering to.

Back to the meet – me and JM get up in there and hang out and cruise pass this table full of blokes we figured it was them so we roll up and yeah we sit by this table of geeks and more geeks keep filing in. No one there was outlandishly good looking, it was just geek city mate and guess who was one of the geeks sitting up on the tables, geeking it up with the rest of us geeks - big giant pink shirt wearing bloke from Thursday night at Mont’e Claire. He goes “Where do I know you from?”
I recounted the Thursday situation. Turns out I pretty much have a new wing now. I grab a bunch of numbers unfortunately they’re all blokes numbers but wings fly.

The apparent lair leader was a good bloke but man I could smell his breath from where I was sitting and that was two chair places away and the bloke reeked. I mean that’s the first rule of game before you actually learn anything, don’t have bad breath yo. All good people though generally see how the new wings fair.

Cheers

zib

Saturday night at Deville Leedy (20-01-06)

I decide the new wing JM is cool enough to meet my mates not into trying to pick up girls often. We all head to ‘Deville Leedy’. After waiting around for 5 full minutes where there is no line suddenly it transforms into a two hour long wait. Just because we waited those five extra minutes for my other mates to come walking round the corner. I saw some famous footballers and even though our team had won the premiership just a couple weeks ago everyone is bagging them because they are celebrities. I’m playing eye tennis with a hot hot niner who is stuck in the massive line with all of us jokers and basically everyone is fucking hot as fuck pants. Eventually we do get in and we’re holding up walls and doing laps and I didn’t step to no one except the one…

I’m lingering and hovering falling back into old pastimes but I open the girl by herself messing about on her mobile. She surprisingly opens up and is not giving me any attitude. I’m surprised. A mate asks for twenty bucks while I’m talking to her, she bails because I’m chatting shit for to long with the mate and that’s the end of that. Still counts as an approach though. Later we hit a strip club see some scraggily poon that is the mangiest. Props to my mate who took his girlfriend up in there so they could look at poon together.

PLUSES FOR THE NIGHT
-This night was inklings of getting my old humour back and there was an entertaining encounter in a car park lift basically I told these girls “We’re hitting a strip club because we believe in the artistic integrity of the display of an erotic dancer as a theatrical performance piece.” Was funny as fuck

SHIT TO DO
-Approach more

-Thursday night at Mont'e Claire (18-01-06)

I’m kinda playing catch up now with this blog so I’ll make this short so I can get up to date, awhile back I went Thursday night to an evening at “The Monte Claire” Nice original name there management well done. I’m there with JM, he’s a good bloke but seriously he needs some fashion style (Only swipe I’ll take at ya mate, you’re a good bloke though haha). We get up in there do a couple laps, don’t step straight away both making weak excuses “Too many people around, bag logistics” rah rah. We chill up stares having our ‘One beer for the night’ and on the enclosed balcony out comes dream girl in a polka dot green top with tight light blue denim hipsters rocking limp brown hair which still carried through because her face was angelically gorgeous. She's an 8.5 – 9. Didn’t step to her because because because…exactly and I missed out on her, even if it was rejection least I could have tried.

Three yellow promo girls step up saying buy some “Tequila” we use their attempt at salesmanship to begin working it for the night.
“Is that a piece of cheese or something?”
I say to the girl holding a yellow wrist band wrapped in plastic. That had her laughing and after that they leave after they realise they ain’t getting any money from us. JM goes and works the two sales girls and I head to the bar to go the sales bird by herself. I say
“Hey you work here, can’t you get us our drinks faster.”
Delivery was weak and it didn’t fly. JM later gets blown out too. Me and him are now dangerously going into ‘Holding up the wall’ mode. I go for two girls looking into a mobile phone seated on a sofa. I run my bit with whatever comes out my mouth and it’s not flying because it’s a new bit about panties and I’m stuttering through it like a dumb ass and I’m too much inside of my head. The 7 dressed up like an 8.5 is giving me the ‘ol eyebrow raise’ look of disgust but the 7 is genuinely conversing but can’t understand what the fuck I’m probably going on about because the wording is all coming out in goobledeegoupedblerrrrk. However I’m pushing on and I guess I passed fake8.5’s shittest because that look of disgust isn’t on her face anymore. I’m still fucking up and now here comes some big giant pink shirt wearing bloke. Big giant pink shirt wearing bloke I noticed out the side of my peripheral vision is just standing there straight faced leering over me, to my surprise though this actually made the situation more beneficial as I actually improved in speech to these girls. After the opener I chat with big giant pink shirt bloke thinking I’ll need to talk myself out of this situation, he’s actually friendly though it’s an aura of condescendingly patronising, he’s there by himself and I figure he has some good knowledge of game anyways I break out.

Later JM is going through his Asian desires again and see’s two hunnies. He opens and I hang back in the distance, he coaxes me over and I oblige I’m going okay and JM actually gets blown out and I have no interest in the girls nor meeting the guy friends who happen to be out with them. She tells me her name is
“Penny”
And I go “What penis?”
“Penny”
“Penis? That’s a funny name”
She laughs but I let it stale out and me and JM bail.

SHIT TO DO
-Approach more
-By the way when you see your apparent dream girl you make sure you go and chat to her

PLUSES
-Good on me for holding ground when giant bloke tried a stand over tactic

Score card

So I'm keeping tabs of all the approaches I do. I'm only keeping count of the ones I open because that's trully breaking the anxiety of approaching. Plus I'm starting at minus 250 because apparently it takes over around 250 to get really good.

So right now the score is

-248

Let's get numbers up yo!

cheers

zib

-Breaking approach anxiety (Fri 12-01-06)

So I'm writing this presently on the 20th even though it happened on the 12th (Just been busy/lazy and what not). On Friday because I had been out with friends and solo and basically never stepped to girls lately because of various issues and insecurities that mounted up I decided to try the PAIR system at fast seduction looking for a wingman again. I had tried it before and actually went out a couple times with one bloke but it didn't click when we where out in field and we ended up even when it got serious going out weekly - just both holding up the wall then taking the long ride home cursing at ourselves as too why we didn't just walk up and chat to anyone.
Anyways I'm diverging, I actually went out with a pretty good bloke - he's been into it for ages (haha reading over this I realised this sounds well across the borderline homo - but oi, nah man nah) like myself and after the awkward meet-up which is almost always borderline weird and homosexual at the beer cafe we figured each other as good blokes and decided to hit the clubs. We went to club Scotland’s and it was chocked wall to wall with fresh looking beautiful women however their was a problem, it was happening again where I was bypassing anyone who was an absolute honey and just doing laps of the club with the new wingman in toe - I figured great "Another wasted fearful night". We stopped by the designated smoko section 'Holding up the wall' just chatting more pickup shit I saw three girls hanging by the side of the dance floor a 6.5, 7 and a 7.5 I mentioned to the new wing I thought I may of knew her, but I didn’t she just looked very similar to a hottie I knew. I grabbed my inner balls told the new wing "Fuck it I'm going in."
(Now this is some shit to write about!) The adrenalin was pumping as I made my way towards the three - they where looking elsewhere I opened with an opinion I wanted to get their perspective on, as I opened they where somewhat startled and the 7.5 was already giving me raised eyebrows, I collectively calmly expressed the opener while my insides where ringing alarm bells of nervousness, I was fronting like I had it together - you know being confident, apparently chicks like that :D. The girls couldn't hear me and asked to say what I was saying again.
"This'll take a SECOND"
I expressed harshly getting over the 7.5's shit test
"Do you reckon it's alright for a girl to smack the shit out of her boyfriend just because she see's him talking to another girl?"
I didn't hear what the responses where I was too busy getting the stack response loaded
"I mean, I'm a sociable person and I was just sitting there and then smack! Hit for like the 47th time".
The girls all laughed, I ignored the 7.5 and 7 spitting this shit to the 6.5 while making sure to communicate with arm touches and what not. JM the new wing entered the set, he started spitting game to the 6.5, and I directed my attention to the 7 ignoring the 7.5.
"Let me guess you're an emotional person aren't you"
"Umm…"
CUT
"Are you smart, are you artistic, are you creative, are you fun loving…”
(kept this going and I sensed even the 7.5 was impressed I was not spitting normal stupid shit like "Where do you work?" etc) I began giving the cube, I knew I was always good at it and I got an 8 out of 10 for it meanwhile JM had been blown out. Fuck knows why I left I suppose I was thinking they'd call me back but after I told all the girls to give me a big group hug before I leave, they all laughed again. Here is where I saw some matrix happening, when I did that and started to walk off I noticed a whole pile of girls just staring over at me slightly smirking giving me the proximity thing it was great and I felt like a pimp. I still believe if I saw them again later that night it would have been a done deal on something! Should have tried for a number but it probably wouldn't have flown because the courtship was well on the way but underdone. Later that night we hit up some Japanese chicks because JM as an Asian fetish.
Before that their was no one in Club Hell (An Asian joint) so we went to Face club. We circled but I was buzzing from breaking the approach anxiety before hand JM opened a lone wolf - he got blown out so he moved on to her friend who was seated right beside her, I opened her turns out she couldn't speak much English (Whether she was faking it or not I don't know) but it staled and I was talking like a broken robot anyway "CAN - Y - OUUND - ER - STAN - D - MEEE?". Guess I got blown out but I didn't really care. I had fun, later as I was walking out I saw her smoking a cigarette I shouted "Byyyeee" smiling and left it for home early because I had another engagement (Yes it did exist)

Great night

Next: -Fun at Mont'e Claire
-Missing out on dream girl
-Piece of cheese
-Look of disgust
-Penny/Penis
-Not to good but still fun

More shit to do - Approach much more
-More negs

-Push ON (Sat 20-01-07)

Having one of them sad days that keep popping round in the circle of life just feeling irritable, depressed and unworthy even as I write this I fee l like a loser. Got that voice in my head telling me I'm a loser and pretty much being cynical of every minor and major thing that I do. Even with the successes of walking up and talking to people I'm still getting paid out for it, thinking’s and feelings of feelings that I'm ugly - shit like that, I know that who cares if I am or not, that is not the issue the important thing is to just push on and be strong and be confident let the mind feel the healing process as I write all this junk on the page even as I feel the voices put pressure on I have to keep on moving. Some of the shit I hear is ridiculously crazy like even if I did pull a women home I wouldn't be able to satisfy her", "I can't even get it up for her", "My nose is to big and I have an ugly smile with bad teeth". As bad as it gets it is imperative I push on. As people unconsciously or even consciously destructively put me down I have to push on and keep doing what I'm doing. :D

Perhaps I’ll employ some kind of limiting belief remover techniques.

Cheers

zib

Advanced Comfort (Link)

I've been looking to improve my comfort skills and shit and thankfully this post from Sinn's blog came up (Sinn is a PUA). He states he is the second best in the world - and he is probably right. Anyways I'm keeping this here for my own records because it is fucking gold.

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Advanced Comfort

This is really the most exciting stuff that I've ever run into in the community, if you guys were lucky enough to be in NY for Day game a month ago, or Phoenix, or NY this last weekend you guys have gotten a taste of Advanced Comfort. How this system came to be was as Future and I have become better friends, I would notice that he was getting reactions from girls unlike ANYTHING I had ever seen before, basically girls fell MADLY in love with him. He also didn't get LMR and converted every day 2. in fact recently he helped me when I was having some problems with HB perfect stripper.

The guy's comfort game is better than ANYONE I've seen. So I started to look at what exactly he was doing and over the course of about 6 months we have backwards engineered comfort to produce THE EXACT SAME RESULTS. It truly is the most powerful system I have ever seen for making woman truly crazy about you. Here's a brief preview, plus a couple of new things I noticed tonight. This system was responsible for 16 lays of mine in late June early July of last year.

1. Passion/Purpose- You must be able to convey to her convincingly that you are a man of a greater purpose. That you are going places she will want to be. You are driven to pursue your life goals and do so without any sort of hesitation. In fact your purpose has driven you to become pre-selected by women, a leader of men and a protector of your loved ones.

2. Seeing her the way she wants to be seen. Every woman has a purpose that she secretly strives to achieve. there is a reason why she does what she does, or doesn't do what she wants to. Find out what this value is and you will be able to give her the most amazing compliments she has ever heard. She needs to feel that you see her, as the person that little girl inside her yearns to be.

3. Hot/Cold. The hot comes in the form of the most amazing compliments she has ever heard, the cold comes in the form of SMALL releases. I.E you are absolutely amazing and whatever you want to be I can see you doing that because of x,y and z. Too bad you're such a douche bag. The key is that you do not tell her that she doesn't have what it takes to be who she wants to become.

4. Future Projections- This is different from future adventure projections, which are silly. These are plans that you are making with her anytime from a week to a year down the road, that show her that you are a man of action and she can come along if she wishes.

5. Emotional Honesty- The second part of future plans, is that EVERYTHING that you say you are going to do, you must do. If she ever feels that you are not truthful, the entire power of Advanced Comfort will be lost as she will not believe that you actually see her that way. She will think you are just trying to get into her pants.

6. Whirlwind Courtship- Advanced comfort breaks the rules of only seeing a woman once a week or talking to her once a day. In fact the more time you log, the more powerful the method is as it is further reinforcing your legitimacy.

7. The feeling that both of you are bound for greatness and you are on the same path. The key to this is to show her that you are going to be someone AMAZING, then ratifying that she can be someone amazing and helping her on her path. pushing her in the right directions the way someone did for you earlier. You guys are on the same path, you just happen to be further along.

This is all based on stuff that Future did naturally that I have backwards engineered. This is the real deal. Technology is morally neutral but if you have an undertanding of this, I implore you guys not to use it the wrong way. This will become a product and a stand alone seminar soon. But I wanted to get this out of my head while I was thinking about it.

-STEPPED!

Finally fucking did it. Broke the seal (I've stepped before ageeeeeeeeees ago) of second wind depression (AFC Reversion) and walked up to a couple chicks and said shit

boom!

And it wasn't painful even with the shit test at the start

cheeeeeeeeeers

zib

Ain't out tonight

Ain't out tonight - work tomorrow - now that suck's anus

peacccccccccccccce

zib

same thing

went out again and didn't step haha.

From now on if this happens i'm just going to put "grr"

so


grr

non stepping sticking point

jus so u know went out again and didn't step again - in fact didn't even make it into the club cos i saw a bloke with the same shirt on as me - so that was the 'excuse' i had to leave

aw well

-.

Fucking solo going out again and not stepping. I'm determined to break this stressful situation. So it's day cruising for chicks in the city tomorrow.

Cheers

zib

Fucking PU treat and a half

Here's a treat. This is what I'm using (for those in the know) be warned though it's for the novice/intermediate in PU, fuck knows if I'm even there probably not :P or perhaps I'm just fucking with you anyways here is my script - I use a Mystery Method/Style format with abit of Doc Paul/DYD now thrown in for some edge let me know if you reckon I have holes in my script peace!

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“What a beautiful person she is”

Attitudes –I don’t give a shit about what people think about me. I have a lot more fun that way.
-Invest in yourself you’ll become the one that magnetically attracts women
-She’s hitting on me. She’s messing up her chances with me
-I’m the 10. Don’t worry about her reaction.
-Of course she wants me, she’s moving to fast
-I’m comfortable in my own skin
-Don’t get flustered as long as they enjoy the company – so what?
-I am a confident relaxed male
-With authority and no doubt I can do anything I want. Ideal frame
-To be great, don’t be needy and rely on other peoples needs

Pebbles - "Note to self: do not date this girl
- That's it. We're breaking up. You can keep the dog
- That's an interesting accent - where are you from?"
- (Town/TV Show) Never heard of it
- Wow, you’re alittle creepy

Push/pull -Wow, we are moving to fast. I can’t talk to you no more. Let’s get married
- I love your style, you’re such a dork
-I like you but I don’t know you well enough
-You know you’re trouble my mother warned me about girls like you. You’ll break my heart and sleep with all my friends – man you have no chance, I eat girls like you for breakfast. (I eat guys like you for lunch) That’s okay I’m full!
-You’re a (occupation) I can’t even talk to you right now

Comebacks – Wow you are so beautiful…you know because of your personality
-Hahahaha, do you have a high enough self esteem to talk to me properly?
-Wow you’re awesome to (smile)
-Look, I grew up around a bevy of beautiful women you can say what you want but I’m not gonna get flustered or anything
-Perhaps. Fine, let’s make it hard I like that
-Don’t worry no one is analysing you. Breathe in you’re only talking to someone of the opposite sex.
-AMOG - You know if you relaxed I think more people would like you.

Intro Time Constraint
Hey guys, can I get an opinion on something this’ll take a sec, I gotta get back to my friends
A1 Open
-STREET – Hey do you guys know where I can get some fairy floss around here?
-JEALOUS GF20(Girls) Do you reckon it’s alright for a girl to smack the shit out of her boyfriend just because she sees him talking with another girl? Yeah it happened to me…I was just being social…at least I thought she was and then wham! Hit for the 47th time.
-PANTYO(Girls)Would you date a guy who walked around in women’s panties? My friend was cheating on his girlfriend and his girlfriend found a g-string in the bathroom from another girl. After a giant fight he lied and said he likes to walk around in women’s panties. Surprisingly his girlfriend found this as a total turn on and regularly asks for him to walk around in women’s panties. Do you guys have a fetish for men in panties? Like imagine a guy with panties on is that working for you? (backturn pose) A g-string nicely cups the vagina; you can’t have a fat dick and balls in there. Pretty soon it’d push it up and come out the side of your neck – like a goader. In fact that’s what happened to my friend. He talks to chicks now and he’s got his balls on the side of his neck and he’ll be like walking up to girls going “Heeeeyy J” and you know girls they like balls, so they’re all like “Oooh what’s that on the side of your neck?” and he’ll gargle and his balls glimmer then he’s all like “IT’S MY BALLS!”
-NIM’S SIS I wanna help my sister thou I'm not sure how. She's very pretty but she lives in one of those Eastern Euro countries like Sweden with the ridiculous competition of blonde haired big breasted women's who like to sauna naked all day and wear head bands while they sweat and stare at tourists like myself lustfully riding an exercise bike…how should I help my self conscious sis over power competition like this?
So how does everybody know each other?

MINI GAMES
-Drink hustle/5 questions wrong
-Mouse race
-Best friends test
-Finger 10 buck trick
-Ben’s mother had three kids

A2 Female to male
Neg (IOD)(Throw and go) Response returns Storytelling (Stack Openers)
-Wow you’re cute there’s good lighting in here
-You’re cute…I mean, because of your personality
-You know your hands look so soft…like toilet paper
-Your hands are dry/wet
-You know, you are absolutely beautiful to bad you’re not my type


COLD READS
-“You’re generally well liked but inside you hide apart of yourself from the rest of the world.”
-“You’re an emotional person aren’t you.”
-“I just have a feeling…but (super dhv setup)

DHV
-Yes ladder - I can tell a lot about you, I’m psychic. I can prove it. Use a YES ladder. “Are you intelligent? Are you intuitive? Are you creative? Are you smart? Are you artistic? Horn..fun loving?
-STRAWBERRY FIELDS – How high is fence? How many strawberries do you take? A farmer sees you how do you feel?
-FUCK MARRY KILL – Lets play “Fuck, Marry, Punch” is a game I got from listening to an old radio show. You play it by pointing out three guys in the club and telling her “You have to fuck one of them, marry one of them, and punch of them. Which one would you do what to?”
-4 QUESTIONS – ‘Some times you only need to sit back and look at the things you say’ – I’ll show you. Imagine yourself in a white room everything is white -- wall, ceiling, floor. Describe your experience (death). What is your favourite colour ..describe it, what feeling does it have (self)? What is your favourite animal.. Why (how people see you)? Describe it. Imagine yourself near a large body of water...describe your experience? What do you do? (view of sex)
-CUBE (try use this one later) - You ever done the cube? I’ll ask you a set of questions and when I’m done I’ll know everything about you, ready you got a good imagination? (Setup) 0. Imagine your in front of a landscape; we’ll use a desert landscape. (Self) 1. In this landscape there is a cube? Tell me a. What size is it? b. Where is it? c. What is it made of? And d. What colour is it?
(Aspirations) 2. Next you see a ladder. A. What size is it? b. Where is it? c. What is it made of?
(Friends) 3. Next there are flowers. A. Where are they? How many? C.What does it look like? D.What colour are they?
(Ideal lover) 4. Next there is a horse. A. Where is it? b. What is it doing? C. What does it look like?
(Challenges) 5. Then there is a storm. A. Where is it? b. What is it doing? C. What does it look like?
-PHOTO MEMORY – 1.Bun 2. Shoe 3.Tree 4.Door 5. Hive 6.Sticks 7.Heaven 8.Gate 9.Line 10.Hen
-BLACK MIRROR SUPER DHV – All problems are 3 catagories – health inner mental health/outer physical health, wealth inner personality riches/outer material wealth and relationships inner – with self/outer with others. “Yes” = and “No” = but “Maybe” = yes. Use vague awareness “I just have a feeling…”

A3 Male to female You’re frame, Don’t hoop jump, Compliments not on looks, Bait – hook – reel - release
(PRETEND LIKE YOU HAVE TO GET BACK TO MATES – HOPEFULLY YOU HAVE THE HOOK POINT)
-So what’s your story what you do?
-I’ve kinda been mean to your friend you mind if I borrow her and say sorry – I don’t like apologising in front of a crowd?

C1 Connection THE GAME IS PLAYED IN COMFORT Elicit Values and Find Commonalities Storytelling
-So what are your interests? How’s that make you feel emotionally when you do that?
-That’s cool, but I like (sub questions) + story on that topic
-Tease and relax – connect on feelings, “Man last time I did that the feeling was intense”
-If my friends where coming to dinner what kind of things would you cook to impress them?
-If you had to either have sex with the ugliest man on the planet or die – which one would you do? Just once. Apparently 50% of women would rather die
-If you had to change yourself physically what would it be?
-What’s the most meaningful compliment you’ve ever gotten?
-What’s the worst insult you’ve ever gotten?
-LUNCHBOX (vulnerability story) – Ah your crazy your like when you go to school with a lunchbox and then you get older and then you realise people are bagging you because you still have a lunchbox and then you start wrapping your sandwiches in freezer bags and by lunch time no matter how careful you walk the sandwich in your bag is squash to shit house – it’s crazy.
-EVR - 1. Enjoy doing 2. Perfect scenario 3. How’s it feel inside? – (Find out what her values are and mirror those) Name something you enjoy doing? (blank) What‘s the best and most enjoyable time when you where doing this? (blank blank) So if you’re in (blank blank) and your in (blank) that moment again, How do you feel – what was that feeling you had? (Well blank) that’s not good enough, what was the actual feeling or emotion you got? (Well I felt blank…) well that’s it that’s your core value that’s what you’re about, what you want to do in life is you wanna feel (blank) and as I’m saying this, you actually feel that now don’t you? (Yes) Their you go, we’ve fulfilled your life goal in five minutes, you can pretty much die now :P But seriously when you have to make a decision in life whether it’s a job, boyfriend whatever and if it brings you closer to feeling (blank) then you know you’re doing the right thing, if it brings you away from it then you know your doing the wrong thing. That’ll be six dollars.
BEAUTY IS COMMON2 – My ex was just as gorgeous as you. Everyone thought things came easy to my ex girlfriend because she was so gorgeous, but the truth is that she had to work twice as hard for everything because no one gave her a break and she always had to prove herself. Let me guess people think you’re a bitch but in truth you’re just shy.

C2 Trust
-TRUST TEST – Hold out hands (throw them away), squeeze, lower.
-Mirroring speech patterns and energy levels for commonalities
-JUGGLER GIRLFRIEND TEST – Answer is B. Which is the best food? Which is the best thing to do? Which is sexier?
-100% PERFECT – I’mma tell you a story It begins with “Once upon a time” and ends with “Sad story isn’t it” Once upon time there was a guy and he was going to do laundry he wasn’t thinking about anything special he was just walking down going to do laundry. In the other direction there was a women and she wasn’t going to do anything special she was just going to mail a letter. She hadn’t changed, put on make-up; she was just going to mail a letter. It just so happened that they happen to pass each other, and the guy said to himself “You know what that is the 100% perfect girl for me, who would think that I’d just be out doing laundry and find the 100% perfect girl for me.” and the woman looked at that guy and said “You know what that is the 100% perfect guy for me, who would think that I’d just be mailing a letter and find the 100% perfect guy for me.” So by some miracle they actually worked up the chance, they had the guts to go talk to each other. And they spoke to each other and they started talking, just talking about everything and it turned out that everything they had in common just clicked 100% everything they didn’t have in common complimented each other perfectly, they kept walking and they took a seat by a river somewhere and talked and hours passed by in the blink of an eye. And after awhile they said “You know this is to weird what are the chances of just walking outside and running into your 100% perfect person.”, so they said “If this is really meant to be real, if we’re really meant to be together what were going to do is separate right now and we won’t exchange phone numbers or anything we’ll just walk away and if fate is really meant for us to be together then we’ll run into each other again. And if we run into each other again we know it was meant to be and we’ll just get married to each other on the spot. It’s up to fate.” So they separated. A day passed, two days passed, a week passed, a month passed, a year passed and they didn’t see each other again. And after some time they decided to start dating other people again. They found 60% perfect love, 70% perfect love even as much as 83% perfect love and as more time passed eventually they got married to separate people, they had nice marriages, they had children and their lives many, many years into the future the influenza was going around and people got very, very sick and they both got very sick but they recovered, however their spouses died. So one day he was walking down the street carrying a sack of laundry and he’s got a feeble shaking hand and he’s about 83 years old and she happens to be walking down the same street to mail a letter and she has it in her feeble shaking hand and they passed each other and he looked at her and said “You know what I think I know that girl.” And she looked at him and said “You know what I think I know that guy he looks very familiar to me like there is some meaning.” But they couldn’t place it, to many years had passed and the memory had just been wiped out by time and other experiences and so they walked right past each other and they didn’t even talk. And the thing was it was really meant for them to be together they really were the 100% perfect person for each other and what happened was what are the chances that fate is going to throw you together once, let alone twice. It’s like winning the lottery and throwing out the ticket and then years later trying to win again just to make sure it was really meant to be. There mistake was they questioned fate, when it offered the chance in the first place, so sad story isn’t it…

(GO FOR NUMBER Style card rip then - Blurring killer – Now I just want you to know when we talk to each other on the phone tomorrow, ultimately where going to want to see each other again, not just talk on the phone. I just want you to recognise it’s a weird situation. I know it is, you and I are going to have to barrel through this together because you’re going to be given a choice to hang out with someone you don’t know or hang out with someone you already know. But if you where to think that way for all those people you now know they wouldn’t be in your life – All those people you know and love would not be around if you thought “Oh I’m not going to hang around with someone I like but don’t know”. So just so you know that I’m going to barrel through the weirdness with you because honestly I don’t really know shit about you. But you’re fun and I promise nothing but great conversation but where supposed to do this… Oi btw (mini game + comfort routine) – with concrete plans OR)

C3 Intimacy
-QUESTION GAME - Let’s play the question game. It’s like truth or dare, but without the dare. Because you know you’re crazy. The questions have to be good ones, no “Where do work bullshit” you can’t ask the same question and you go first…Ok, how many boyfriends have you had? (Later) Would you like to kiss me?
-LIKE TO KISS - You talk too much, would you like to kiss me? (Yes, maybe) Let’s find out. Xx (no) I didn’t say you could I said would you like to (5 second back turn) I like putting it out there.
-SPONTANEOUS -So are you different? Are you spontaneous? If you where in kissing school, what rating would you get? Really...Let’s find out (x)

S1 Arousal Two steps forward one step back -Aww we shouldn’t really be doing this
-MOMENTS - You know that moment before two people kiss for the first time? Don’t you wish that moment could last forever?
-STYLE FOOLPROOF – I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now. (kiss) What are you doing to me? I’m never like this.
-STYLE FOOLPROOF2 - “Stop looking at me like that. You’re driving me crazy.” Or “If you only knew the things I was thinking about doing to you right now. I shouldn’t. Go ahead: what were you saying?”
-NERVOUS GAME – Are you nervous?

S2 LMR
-Time constraint on instant date – You can come over but I gotta wake up early tomorrow so you can’t/I’m not stay long.
-Just because you’re here doesn’t mean you’re getting any, when things go too far I walk.
-You know I really like you I actually want to see you again so I’m not sleeping with you tonight.
-Take a piece of food and feed her
-RIKER’S RULES – 1. There’s got to be a condom, 2. We both should want to do this because it’s something that should give us tingles when you’re thinking about it and the next rule 3. You need to smile when it’s over.

S3 Sex
-After sex – “So when did you first realise you where attracted to me?”
-More routines – “Do you know any good ones?”

-DYD Deep Inner Game 01 - 02 Cont...

Notes continued...Goes from DYD Disc 01 to 02

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-Be in the present moment

FOUR PARTS OF PSYCHOLOGY
1. Personal Boundary
2. Decision making power
3. Intellect (Your Ideas - from this comes time management)
4. Emotional energy - Using stressful emotions such as anxiety as a use rather than a scourge (Mastering your self esteem)

Happiness is high self esteem
Success is Reaching a goal (See the bright side Edison said he found 999 successful ways of how not to make a light bulb) - persistence

-Durable fulfilment

-Using the four parts of your psychology can solve your problems

PERSONAL BOUNDARIES
-If you don't let go of your problems you'll suffer

-Aim for a healthy mature personal boundary (more on this)

Suffering is burning your emotional energy on things you can't control.

-Take notice on when you burn energy on things you can't control

Where I suffer
1. Letting anything that becomes volatile get me down and affect me very passively
2. Not speaking about it and having no idea how too
3. Tenseness

-You need a solid identity - your boundary creates your identity - have preferences

-Saying "No" defines a solid boundary

-Women test to see if they can test the man and affect his boundaries - have a strong firm confident resolve however don't become selfish let those in with your doors but open those doors yourself from the inside of your self

SELF ESTEEM (Emotion)
INTERLECT
DECISION MAKING these are all your inner treasure

OBSERVING EGO - Practise saying "No"

-You want to build a healthy personal boundary
-The rejection makes you stronger if you don't care

-Stress is either a hurt, a loss or both

-Nobody makes us be anything and when you say "should" you’re trying to control the uncontrollable in others

-When we regret things we suffer

-Jealousy is suffering
-Revenge is suffering (Wishing you controlled the past with your anchor)

-ENERGY IS THE MOST VALUABLE AND SCARCE RESOURCE

-Try not to dwell and let go - negative energy into positives - flow to transform

-When you're an adult you have your own will and determination

-You're not the whole world for anyone to solve
-The irony is that having a strong personal boundary will help other people around you

MASTER THIS TO STOP THIS
PROBLEM DHV
There are 3 Problems of Mood

1. BIOLOGY<--Hurts Chem.(Serotonin)--2.PSYCHOLOGY<--Regress (Psych goes backward)--3.STRESS

-Biology is your brains hardware. To fix that you need an artificial med example anti-depressants or valium
-To fix a psychology problem you need education/therapy. This is your brains software
-With stress you have to make the decision if you are going to let if affect you or not, be strong to just let it go (I know it's hard)
-If you do let it effect you - your growth goes backward and you regress and if you don't get the necessary education/therapy you go back further into your biology and it hurts your chemistry and your serotonin goes down the tube.

AHA!!!!!!!! Just drop the idea of me trying to entertain everyone - if they are they is - if they ain't well...... who cares.

You can't use medicines to fix your psych problems or your stress problems. Like the guy who needs valium because his girlfriend uses a lot of drugs and it makes him upset having to deal with her constant mess of her running into problems with police and fights.

HAVING A THICK SKIN BOUNDARY - CAN BE JUST AS IMATURE/ SENSITIVE THIN SKIN (HOLES IN YOUR BOUNDARY)

THE MOST MATURE DESIGN IS A BOUNDARY WITH DOORS - doors you alone open and close

Observing ego - a mature/tough custom distinction

-Decisions you have to make come from within your boundaries - DECISIONS ARE THE DEFINITION OF LIFE

YOU CAN BE
Destructive - Win/Lose - Feeling as though you have to battle to gain one up man ship over someone

Or

Constructive - Win/Win - Letting those around you trade off with the rewards from within your personal boundary. You use your doors to let people in and out and have some of your inner gold

-Once something is in your personal boundary - it's your problem

There is currency to the aspects of your personal boundary
Rewarding someone/trading off will result in the following

Lending your boundary will give someone strength
-With decisions it'll cost you some freedom
-With intellect it'll cost you some time
-With emotion/self esteem it'll cost you some love

THESE TRADES EXIST EVEN IN RELATIONSHIPS

YOU'RE GETTING BAD DEALS EVERYWHERE IF YOU'RE A WUSSY AND AFRAID TO SPEAK OUT - Watch the balance with indifference though!

-Be strong

-What is value?

-When you where a young boy saying yes to everything was cute and created a bond between you and your mother but to become a man saying NO causes much more respect
-All of this psychology is invisible but real

AHA!!! Don't worry about your communication skills these will fix themselves as you express yourself and communicate more and educate and write

-Interdependence is what you want to achieve - the ability to be able to go away without her turning into a neurotic mess and coming back to life as a couple with our boundaries as one again

There are two types of STRESS
1. Hurt which creates anger
2. Loss which creates anxiety
-Some of these traumas you can't avoid but what is all this? Stress, hurt, loss, anger, anxiety? It's all energy - negative energy - you can turn this around

-Wounds are needed. For a man they are valuable to grow - special knowledge (Troy story (Hercules stolen bow and arrow)) - AN ASPECT OF GROWTH
-All those bad things you had had happen happened for good reason

-Success means your boundary is bigger but that will not necessarily mean your self esteem will be better.

DYD Deep inner game 01

So I've been studying inner game - it's an aspect I currently need help on. Here are my notes and expansions I'll list these notes as I go through the program and hopefully improve life and get some flange :D

Let me know if you want more of an expansion on specific's

safe

zibbolo

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With all task you wants to excel in there are obstacles which are needed to overcome these include

1. Lapse of concentration
2. Nervousness
3. Self doubt or self condonation (The act of condoning, especially the implied forgiveness of an offence by ignoring it.)

Give this program 1 hour a day for 90 days.

Watch the paralysis of analysis - this studying and studying and studying yet with no practical work.

My top 5 problems
1. Can't approach
2. Feeling not good enough for PU
3. Feeling I can't be fun loving and people just don't like me when they get to know me currently

Realising wow people have the same problems as me.

Watch "the Count of Monte Christo" the narrative is symbolism for your own life.

Mind OS (Credit Dr Paul)
-Symbolism has powerful words attached to it.

-Elegance - To take something complex and make it simple (yet there is underlying machinery)

-The anatomy of character - "Character is destiny" Sigmund Freud

-You have to be conscious enough to work on your own character.

-What's your symbol? Tints? :Dx
-What's your story? Social phobe to PUA vfx artist. Whoa...

-AU is the universal symbol for gold

-A Gentlemen is comfortable with conflict

-Read "Absent fathers lost sons" by some drongo

-Keep cool, presence, mature personal boundaries, confidence, welcome rejection.

-Every rejection is a chance to grow

-Feel respect and alittle uneasy

-"Bluebeard" story to scare women into chastity originally.
-Describes the female etipus. Women have to know secrets.
-You need to have your own secrets

-"Count of Monte Christo" A story (Providence and divine justice (Roadmap of masculine development.))
-His prison of boyhood (boyish familiar)
-IT'S EASY TO STAY IN THE FAMILIAR AND NOT TO DIVE INTO THE UNKNOWN.

-Money and women is a side effect of high character.
-Map is any guidance that gives you character.

-Life requires decisions - every decision causes psychological growth. You can't make decisions in the past, only the present for the future.

-Intimacy and connection is involved in the present
-Observing ego is a human skill that causes human growth
-OE is something you naturally grow every time you journal and every time you watch a film you like.

-Oscar winning films are every man films. You are out in the audience observing you.

-Your life is like a film. Observing ego lets you do that

-Mature masculine power = Observing ego + Mature boundary function (doors) + Confidence

Dr Paul

"You'll always want to be somewhere else than where you are."

Fucking sweet quote hey

zibbolo

Shop non-stepping and fighting with X

-Didn't approach again but I was in the shopping centre and in my defence a harder venue than club game in my opinion however these are probably more excuses than anything. In fact they are, I did see three occasions where I should of stepped up though one set had real actual talent in it though, the other two I copped looks anyway have to state that before I went walking through the shops my anxiety was firing through the roof, my pits are drenched and I was sweating majorly I did like how I pressed on however and even slowed my walking and just let the feelings consume me because I know that I shouldn't let these feelings govern my way of life, right now I put up with them and I have no choice because they'll probably never go away. Can't and won't let my disorder stop me from going out in public still not approaching though however I'm determined to get this handled anyway in other news had a major fight with the ex-girlfriend, we are both trying to be civil and stay friends. She didn't like it when I told her about the small details of the way a girl I was seeing laughs. I guess deep down I was trying to push buttons but she’s seeing someone else also so I guess she has some feelings for me and I for her, she did accuse me of being fake which got to me, but I'm trying to make my life better but still didn't like my new found confidence, if we can call it that (dam maybe she is getting to me) "Aah the games we play"

zibbolo

Notes on the toilet

With determination causes a tense nothingness. I want to repair myself from my sorry situation the problem is I don't know if what I'm trying to move myself into is not another sorry situation in itself. I hear of the achievements of others in PU and even envision myself doing the types of phenomenal things I hear about like having all types of different women but even if I did get all this will that be any type of validation. I've read before that it will not but their is no doubt I have to break from my shy shell. Do I have to? Maybe no not really but in today’s cruel world it asks for someone of cocky charisma to create and acquire these opportunities in life. The problem is I am disheartened and feel I am doing the wrong thing. It hurts to write like this. It hurts to show off this. They say it's good to bleed like this. Is this just my anxiety playing up? I can feel the tenseness fluctuate as I write line for line on paper. I'm sitting on the shitter as I write this, yes the actual toilet because I'm determined to get over my problems. I felt the need to chuck a shit and I have the sneaky suspicion my body brought it on like this cause I knew I was going to pour out hard emotion like this out onto paper or maybe I'm just babbling scribbling here with cotton slippers on and Hilfiger undies around my ankles emptying my assholes contents into the toilet. That's pretty funny, what's even funnier is why are you reading this shit? The last sentence back I forced on that laugh (but it came naturally as I retype this shit btw I like writing on paper first cause I heard it's more natural but you don't give a fuck :D) and now I'm thinking what the fuck am I doing as I try to anticipate a readers reaction as I write this shit on the toilet. Fuck this, time to wipe my ass.

haha

That say it's lame to laugh at your own jokes and shit, but fuck that last line damn! New Dave Chapelle

zibbolo

Didn't fucking step again..

I don't know what the deal is but i'm really getting sick of this. Currently i've been going through a huge phase of average frustrated chump (AFC) reversion and it's been going on for quite some time - I've lost count the amount of times I've went out and have not approached ANYONE I'm really getting sick of wasting my time like this, I have actually approached in the past with abit of success (I'll write about it some time) but going through alittle depressed state has rewussed me. IT IS IMPERATIVE I get this sorted. I just came back from a new years race day which was chock full of vagina! Absolutely beautiful with no booming music the perfect scenario for approaching and what happened? Missed opportunity.

I WANT AND AM GOING TO APPROACH ANYONE.

Back to the books then...

Peace

zibbolo

Fuck acronym's

I believe using all the PU (yes I know) acronym's is one good ingredient to make you a demoralising social robot.

"So I gave the HB a DHV because I needed to progress to A3 because I wanted a ONS."

YUCK!

here's the more comedy value version

"So I showed the bitch some shit because I wanted her flange."

Excellent! :D

zibbolo

Words from the master

So here is a couple sentences I picked out off an argument over the internet about seduction stuff. We'll ignore what they where fighting about because honestly who cares (the link is there if you want to actually see) but Mystery (His name will pop up alot) goes into golden issues about mirco-calibration and muliple threading when interacting with people, he gives it away for free as oppose to paying $4000 odd dollars for it (in my country anyway) so heres what I nicked for friendly viewing here.

Cheers

zibbolo
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Your GF was PRACTICE for a time in the future when a woman of particular value comes along he wont fuck up like he did in your set. To the guy who approached your set - you go boy! but routine stacking has to be ditched for micro-calibration (you know, IOIs, IODs, DHVs, DLVs, and CTs all happening at the right time ... eg: you enter and IOD, DHV then CT. if she IODs to your CT, you IOD and DHV. if she IOIs to your CT (compliance test), you IOI, DHV and CT again. It happens fast and you will find yourself multiple threading as you cut yourself off to respond to any IOI or IOD you get from her. Its in my book. But stacking is a great start to personality conveying. on we plow ...

See, if the girl thinks the guy is hitting on her BEFORE he has a chance to DHV then he's blown out. So they need original OPENERS and unique NEGs to do this.

"ignore the smoke and smile".

I still personally use the "name three things that would make me want to get to know you know" bit in A3. good stuff.

Negging is what women do when they turn away from your approach. Are you going to claim she read Mystery's book too if she indicates subtle rejection clues?

Live life. get out. meet people. get into trouble. try. fail. succeeed. learn. build something. travel. write a book. get on a talk show. jump out of an airplane. scuba dive off the great barrier reef (style and I did that).

"You speak alot about Micro calibration lately. By this are you referring to simply calibrating the situation to the reaction of the set, as opposed to flat out routine and neg stacking? We'd love some explanation on this."

Exactly. The hard part is to be able to do it in REAL TIME while in set. For instance, while you throw your opener one of the girls begins to lean back and her head JUST begins to turn away ...

YOU: Hey knucklehead (NEG for bad behavior), the show's over here. ... continue opener. Or you throw a NEG: "You are such a little shit." Ordinarily the IOI calibrator would be: "I love you." But sometimes you don't WANT to drop on the calibrator at the end. And similarly when IOIing: "You have beautiful eyes ... can I touch them?" (credit Ali G.) sometimes you will choose NOT to calibrate with the IOD. All this has to be done LIVE while you run routines at the same time. There are something like 1 to 3 calibration points in any give 10 second period ... and I am AMAZING at it! (when Im not tired - I have to be really awake and alive because playing feels like speed chess). Microcalibration paves the way for skillful multiple threading because you are concerned much less with what routine you are running as you are with what IOIs and IODs you are giving during the routine performance (as well as WHEN: you IOI when she DHVs, you IOD when she DLVs (you bait her to do so), etc) so you can switch from thread to thread easily

Multiple threading is important for MANY reasons BTW:
1. it protects you from CONVERSATIONAL LOCK-OUT
2. it makes you more interesting
3. it allows for microcalibration
4. you can control many individuals in set
5. you can merge sets easily
6. at end of chat open threads make "we have so much to talk about" believable - improves the TB
7. is a strong indicator of rapport.

What IS Conversational Lockout?
AFC: excuse me do you have the time?
HB: 10:30
AFC: thanks. ... so ... where are you from?

See how you get locked OUT of conversation and must climb back in, thereby telegraphing interest (an IOI from you to her). Not a problem when that's DESERVED ... but if she doesnt specifically DHV then that IOI is coming out at the wrong time and cant so fucking instantly lose your hard earned set right there and then.

Multiple threading protects this from happening. You run a routine, pause it to run another one and when that runs out, instead of leaping to a new topic (and IOIing - which can get you killed if her BF is there - his protection mechanism for keeping his investment will trigger on it), instead you say, "where was I?" and then continue the previously already begun routine. Open several threads and you can control several people individually in set too.

For those wondering what the fuck I'm babbaling about

This is a medium to journalise my self improvement with everything. I want to meet more women, become more healthy and make more money.

I want to be something excellent and get over the negativity that plagues the insides of my head.

For those into PU (pick up), I guess it is a PU journal but they say to be good at PU you have to create the foundations of everything revolving around it. Problems are all interlinked mannnnnnnnn.

anyways better fuck off before I turn all gay hippy.

Feeling deflated

So right now I feel deflated - I suppose it is like a depression, maybe a mild one of sorts (my heads telling me not to tell the world I am depressed). I'm guessing it comes from my oldskool agoraphobia, looking on the bright side of things, having this anxiety disorder has made me really really anxious to go out and do something - anything, the problem is when I go out nothing monumental happens (should I expect this?) so I go home feeling more anxious to go out and do something and I just go deeper because nothing happens the next time around I go out. I'm talking career/relationship wise. You get me? I want something to happen - but the thing is when I do go out I'm too much of a pussy when I go out to just roll the dice and make something happen, when it is my philosophy to go out and grab life by the balls and create opportunities in the 3 tiers of life being health sex and work.

Right now I'm lazy and lethargic as fuck and I'm eating crappy. Fuck this writing shit I'm going to do something.

Sorry mate

Well, I anticipate this would happen because I really need to get my organisational skills in order. I've been having a lot of learning experiances but I don't seem to ever find the time to get around to writing them up. Sorry bout that, but hey I'll get around to it eventually.

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