Monday, January 1, 2007

Words from the master

So here is a couple sentences I picked out off an argument over the internet about seduction stuff. We'll ignore what they where fighting about because honestly who cares (the link is there if you want to actually see) but Mystery (His name will pop up alot) goes into golden issues about mirco-calibration and muliple threading when interacting with people, he gives it away for free as oppose to paying $4000 odd dollars for it (in my country anyway) so heres what I nicked for friendly viewing here.

Cheers

zibbolo
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Your GF was PRACTICE for a time in the future when a woman of particular value comes along he wont fuck up like he did in your set. To the guy who approached your set - you go boy! but routine stacking has to be ditched for micro-calibration (you know, IOIs, IODs, DHVs, DLVs, and CTs all happening at the right time ... eg: you enter and IOD, DHV then CT. if she IODs to your CT, you IOD and DHV. if she IOIs to your CT (compliance test), you IOI, DHV and CT again. It happens fast and you will find yourself multiple threading as you cut yourself off to respond to any IOI or IOD you get from her. Its in my book. But stacking is a great start to personality conveying. on we plow ...

See, if the girl thinks the guy is hitting on her BEFORE he has a chance to DHV then he's blown out. So they need original OPENERS and unique NEGs to do this.

"ignore the smoke and smile".

I still personally use the "name three things that would make me want to get to know you know" bit in A3. good stuff.

Negging is what women do when they turn away from your approach. Are you going to claim she read Mystery's book too if she indicates subtle rejection clues?

Live life. get out. meet people. get into trouble. try. fail. succeeed. learn. build something. travel. write a book. get on a talk show. jump out of an airplane. scuba dive off the great barrier reef (style and I did that).

"You speak alot about Micro calibration lately. By this are you referring to simply calibrating the situation to the reaction of the set, as opposed to flat out routine and neg stacking? We'd love some explanation on this."

Exactly. The hard part is to be able to do it in REAL TIME while in set. For instance, while you throw your opener one of the girls begins to lean back and her head JUST begins to turn away ...

YOU: Hey knucklehead (NEG for bad behavior), the show's over here. ... continue opener. Or you throw a NEG: "You are such a little shit." Ordinarily the IOI calibrator would be: "I love you." But sometimes you don't WANT to drop on the calibrator at the end. And similarly when IOIing: "You have beautiful eyes ... can I touch them?" (credit Ali G.) sometimes you will choose NOT to calibrate with the IOD. All this has to be done LIVE while you run routines at the same time. There are something like 1 to 3 calibration points in any give 10 second period ... and I am AMAZING at it! (when Im not tired - I have to be really awake and alive because playing feels like speed chess). Microcalibration paves the way for skillful multiple threading because you are concerned much less with what routine you are running as you are with what IOIs and IODs you are giving during the routine performance (as well as WHEN: you IOI when she DHVs, you IOD when she DLVs (you bait her to do so), etc) so you can switch from thread to thread easily

Multiple threading is important for MANY reasons BTW:
1. it protects you from CONVERSATIONAL LOCK-OUT
2. it makes you more interesting
3. it allows for microcalibration
4. you can control many individuals in set
5. you can merge sets easily
6. at end of chat open threads make "we have so much to talk about" believable - improves the TB
7. is a strong indicator of rapport.

What IS Conversational Lockout?
AFC: excuse me do you have the time?
HB: 10:30
AFC: thanks. ... so ... where are you from?

See how you get locked OUT of conversation and must climb back in, thereby telegraphing interest (an IOI from you to her). Not a problem when that's DESERVED ... but if she doesnt specifically DHV then that IOI is coming out at the wrong time and cant so fucking instantly lose your hard earned set right there and then.

Multiple threading protects this from happening. You run a routine, pause it to run another one and when that runs out, instead of leaping to a new topic (and IOIing - which can get you killed if her BF is there - his protection mechanism for keeping his investment will trigger on it), instead you say, "where was I?" and then continue the previously already begun routine. Open several threads and you can control several people individually in set too.

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